Dan gave me good advice tonight about one of the guests at Jenny's wedding shower. I told him that I was nervous about this other woman. She is mean to me, and no matter what I do, she will be catty and vicious, as I have learned from past experience. I think the chip on her shoulder is bigger than her husbands.

Dan said, "don't try and be her friend, don't be funny, she will just misunderstand and be defensive."

Smart son.
Now I have to practice being reserved to her, and be myself with the other guests.

Maybe I can channel Jackie Kennedy on Saturday.